I normally use Mozilla Firefox / Linux. After seeing your reply, I tried Windows 2000, using both Internet Explorer and Firefox. In all cases, using www.Google.com
(not the tool bar), I got results consistent with what I described earlier. I used the Google tool bar a little and, except for Internet Explorer, got consistent results. When I typed "myLife.com" in the I.E. tool bar, it took me directly to that site -- no search results.
When I earlier got results consistent with your first attempt on "myLife.com", I did not get a sponsored result for that website. When I do get both red and green SiteAdvisor ratings on the same search, one of them is a sponsored result.